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Assalamualaikum.

This post may dedicated to all career women, a mummy of kids age 2 years and 11 months old and a wife with no maid at home.

Yes it describes me myself.

I would like to know, how these career women commit with work loads and handle their marriage life with toddler and baby, husband and house chores.

Obviously for a lady in that situation will find it is hard to stay in the office for working late. Agree??

As for me myself, balik lambat je I dah worry the kids should be hungry. The first thing that crossed my mind.

I am a lady engineer, design for PCB electronics equipments. So work loads normally came by season. Ada masa free gila, ada masa busy macam nak gila. And I believed this kind of work trends sama macam semua PCB designers out there.

Sorry, I tak tau trend keje lain macam mana. 

Does title for working late job does not meant for lady? Or ladies cannot be engineer once they got married and have kids and babies. Or all mummies must hire a maid if they still want to commit as lady engineer and working late?

Not fair! but that is the real situation. 

Different story bila the kids dah start sekolah. Then lady engineers need to wait until the kids sekolah only baru boleh nak berdedikasi???

If you attend for any interview, the 1st issue they will ask, can you working late? May i know your kids age? They also can predict if you still answer YES, but your children are only 2 years old and having baby. Or else they will ask do you have maid? What happen if you balik lambat and the kids at nursery?

What do you think the result will be?

It is not about qualification issue, even you passed the qualifying test. They just also understand that you cannot stay back to commit with work. 

So better they choose a guy instead.

Poor lady. :(

Husband? 

Kalau mak sorang pun boleh rasa nak pergi toilet pun tak sempat bila jaga anak dua, inikan pulak husband. I pernah tanya my husband, boleh tak kalau i tinggalkan Hannah and Harraz with you one whole day? White flag rise up! Surrender!

And also macam mana when your husband is working night shift. nobody can take care the children now. Sanggup nak tinggalkan anak dekat nursery sampai esok pagi? not me! 

What i can say, saya bersabar dan bertahan. Work load kat office cuba settlekan sepantas mungkin sebelum 5.30pm. If terpaksa i bring home only for weekend. 

Tapi, nak tuka keje lain tu rasanya belum cerah harapan. Of course saya tak salahkan anak-anak. Lahirnya mereka ke dunia, membawa rahmat dan rezeki yang besar kepada keluarga. Term rezeki itu luas.. Kaji sendiri dan selidik rezeki yang mereka bawa. :)

Success doesn't come to you…you go to it

Teruskan bersedia..

Ok... ticktock tinggal lg 73 hari. +- lebih kurang lagi dua bulan.

Huhu.. banyak lagi yang tak siap.

Last weekend ayah, ummi, mr fiance and me visit butik pengantin. Ilham butik saya dapat dari Ladyneo. Alhamdulillah selamat bersalin dah pun dia. Set makeup ala-ala earth colour. Tak mo lipstick merah menyala & eye shadow kaler2 pelangi.

Akhirnya,

Pelamin dewan & segala barang berkait termasuk bunga pahar- SET

Bilik pengantin - SET

Make up sanding - SET

Baju pengantin (baru) - SET

Pintu gerbang -SET

Bunga pagar tempat laluan pengantin - SET
Kos = less than RM2K. :D

Theme: gold, cream, purple and blue. macam2 ada kan..

Katering pun dah selesai.

Set meja makan tetamu- SET

Meja Pengantin - SET

Meja VIP - SET

Dome VIP - SET

Buffet - SET

Lauk Pengantin - SET

Minum petang - SET

Menu: Nasi minyak, nasi briyani, nasi putih.

Lauk: tak igt tapi yang pasti ada rendang tok.

Kos = +- RM15K. (1000-1500 orang)

Photographer = SET (penginapan sponsored by tuan rumah)

Kos = less than 1K untuk event 2 hari plus outdoor. pun saya suka :D

saya tak mewah.. berbelanja la dengan bijak.. buat pilihan terbaik..

Last week juga pergi melawat Dewan Proton tu sebab nak draft peta. Hokkeeyyyyyy besar macam org nak buat persembahan teater.

Saya nak duduk diam je ayah, bukan nak wat show kat atas tu nanti. Seriauuuu je rasa.

Kad still dalam process mendesign. Mr fiance punya role.. He chooses card kaler pink + purple. Tak bole nak bayang macam mana jadi rupa nnt. But dah warn x mo gamba tepak sirih, x mo gamba cincin, x mo gamba2 yang menunjukkan tersangat kad kahwin.

Next is.. waaa baju nikah tak buat lagi bole??? :D

Success doesn't come to you…you go to it

Check list terpenting..

Its for my reminder and my own checklist.

Of course i am extra happy if it would help others too..

Dalam kegairahan nak menshopping-shopping, as for me perkara yang harus didahulukan ialah Permohonan Nikah.

Zaman sekarang ni nak kahwin pun susah.

Isi borang sana, isi borang sini, lulus sana, pass sini..

Thennnn >>> OK proceed.

(baru la bole kahwin. Baru la jugak bole sibuk nak beli itu ini dengan penuh semangat)

Tapi kalau kebetulan tengah ada "Super Duper SALE", grab the oppurtinity n shopping lah dengan bijak.

Prosedur Permohonan Nikah Lelaki >> Klik sini

Prosedur Permohonan Nikah Perempuan >> Klik sini

tadaa..... macam-macam kan derang nak. Hikhikhik.. selamat menggaru kepala la korang2 yang nak kawin gak tu..

Semua check-list and dokumen sokongan semua ada derang bg tau.

So, sebelum nak buat checklist kenduri.. selesaikn check-list Permohonan Nikah dulu.

And termasuk dalam check-list is pegi buat HIV test. As result for HIV test ni kena submit sekali ngan borang mohon nikah nanti.

Jom buat HIV Test! >> Senarai Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan Selangor (Ujian HIV) as what i've said test kena buat kat klinik kerajaan.

At first we were planning to go for HIV test at early of February. Since i just noticed that the result needs to submit together with the Nikah form, then we need to do the test earlier la dear.

Next week ok tak?

Success doesn't come to you…you go to it

Bronchi>>Alvioli

Semalam saya jadi cikgu Sains. (8:15pm-9:45pm Minda Ceria Tuition Centre)

I covered 1st Chapter; Respirotary System for Science Form 3. Syllabus sekarang dah tak sama macam masa kita PMR dulu.. If i am not mistaken mostly what they covered today is our level during SPM.

Ini la hasilnya pada sesi akhir kelas.

p/s: chop jangan gelak!! Admitting my bad hand writing. Especially on white board.

Success doesn't come to you…you go to it

My 1st note.

Holla..

The purpose of this blog is to express my intentions towards a wedding day of mine..

To squeeze out my excitment en route for the big day..

To say words of the joys and obstacles of my other life..

To share the sweets & sours of my beloved students and classes..

To cry the journey of something that i passionate into..

Of course it still a personal blog and dear readers you are in my territory.

I admire any advices and supports from everyone.

Thank you.