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Jumaat, 13 Disember 2013

2032 lambatnya lagi.

Saya dekat KK Seri Kembangan. Lepas dengar cerita maksu pasal one her friend's sister passed away due to complication during her 6mo of pregnancy. Insaf terus makanya saya disini pagi ni.
Kat sini ramai parent yg bawa newborn baby untuk checkup. Mak buyung pun ramai juga.
Seronok tengok gelagat masing-masing, lagi2 yang anak berderet macam I. Hehe.. Esok dah tiga macam mana la makin hecticnya keluarga kami.
Tak sabar pula rasa nak tunggu baby baru lahir.
Menunggu lah saya dengan sabar sebab 2032 masih jauh walaupun saya dah sampai sini dari 8.30am td.
Daaa...
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Khamis, 12 Disember 2013

kids & parenthood thingy..

Assalamualaikum..

I just read someone's blog on: 10 useful tips from a Child Psychiatrist
I can say apa yang psychiatrist tu cakap memang betul.
I strongly agree motor and sensory skills kanak-kanak ni cepat develop from practical practices.

I do believe all parents have their own best way to raise their child. So do I, although there must be surely lacked at somewhere.

Selalu jugak saya cerita dekat husband, kesian tengok Hannah. Saya tau dia pun nak macam kanak-kanak lain, play with `something in a box.' Memang purposely saya tak nak expose her to these kind of 'boxes' tapi bila tengok anak sendiri kesian je rasa.
Tapi hati suami keras, dia tetap jugak tak nak belikan. He would rather agree if i spend lots more on toys, books, food and playlands.

So far I tak de ipad, tak de handphone canggih. Just enough we have tv and computer with astro and unifi at home. 

Honestly I pernah bergaduh besar dengan husband just because of these kinds of gadgets. Dulu kan tak wujud pun smart phone ni. So kita lebih focus to each other. Tapi bila masing-masing pakai hp canggih, kejap2 msg fb masuk. kejap-kejap whatsapp masuk. Eventhough duduk sebelah pun tak bercakap just because sibuk main handphone.

Then my husband admit memang gadget ni semua boleh jadi addicted. Asal bunyi je kita akan focus lebih dekat yang bunyi dulu dari benda-benda lain. Bila tak de bunyi, kita pulak kejap2 cek, belek sana sini, browse itu ini. I sentap la kan. So from there dia cakap tak pe tak perlu tepon yg canggih biar dia pakai apa yang ada (walaupun screen pecah. hihi) . Tapi kalau I nak tukar dia tak kisah sebab katanya dia tau I tak macam dia. 

Erm... well still thinking for proposal cost, tapi at the same time i takut bila i pulak pakai hp hebat i akan jadi lagi teruk dari my husb sekarang.

Tapi kalau pasal my kids toys, most of their toys are concept toys. Colourful blocks, ABC, 123, set masak-masak which come into pieces each set. More on traditional kids practically. Cuma tak de outdoor nak main parit, panjat pokok macam daddy. Kalau ditaburkan semua mainan anak-anak rasanya boleh tak nampak lantai rumah. Sumpah saya stress bila mainan budak-budak ni berterabur satu rumah. Tapi dah sendiri beli bagi anak main mainan macam tu, sendiri la kena kutip dengan redha. :D

Honestly saya suka perhatikan Hannah dan Harraz bila diorang dah start heret bekas mainan, by the time they hold something, i can see that they were actually thinking;
 "apa kita nak buat dengan mainan ni.. macam mana ye kita nak main benda ni".
Their motor skills are spinning. Love that.

Vocabs pun saya selalu expose budak-budak ni manually. I would rather to keep repeating a word sampai Harraz boleh ikut. And it surprised me when i just got to know Hannah can say monkey, frog, dog and cat tu biasa la. Now I tengah train Harraz untuk sebut benda-benda tu semua eventhough nak sebut mummy pun tak lepas lagi. But at least he can make the sounds of dog, cow, tiger and cat.

Yang sedang masih dalam progress berusaha is to control my temper. Honestly I selalu selalu selalu complaint to my husb kenapa la anak2 ni macam tu, macam ni. Orang lain pun anak kecik jugak.. Tak de hal pun bila bawak makan kat luar, tak de hal pun rumah sepah-sepah over. 
Kalau orang tengok how we handle our kids aroud, orang pun rasa kelam-kabutnya family ni.

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Last Tuesday I had my company annual dinner. My officemate tengok je gelagat anak2 saya tak tak diam walau seminit. Sampai my friend cakap, "Nurul, i just nampak you duduk for one minute tak sempat makan then you dah bangun balik the kids want this and that.".
Kalau pergi kenduri, I tengok boleh je anak-anak orang duduk diam makan nasi. Tapi kalau kena anak-anak I, baru 10 min sampai, silap monitor sket confirm baju cantik dah jadi kaler lain.

I did some readings, searching macam mana nak handle anak-anak yang species macam ni. Alhamdulillah, the only solution i found is your kids are smart and brilliant. Selidik progress anak tu macam mana, then you will say big thank you and alhamdulillah. 
I slowly managed to adapt my anger and shouting tapi ada masa-masa terlepas jugak ciri-ciri mak tiri due to of many circumstances.

My wish, saya nak anak-anak saya even dah besar pun tak rasa malu nak manja-manja landing atas riba mummy. So from there, tak ada rahsia antara mak dan anak. Saya nak anak-anak saya tak de rasa malu dan takut nak cerita masalah. So that takkan ada lakonan sementara.

Apa pun, relax la pembelajaran masih jauh untuk kita jangka. Just try to learn and be the best for your children. Allah kan ada. As for ibu bapa yang waras, seharusnya kita nak kan yang terbaik untuk anak-anak. Usaha dan berserah kepada DIA. 

Ibu bapa yang tak waras je sanggup tinggal anak tak berbaju tepi jalan. 

~cheers~

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