Tadi saya bukak Yahoo, then terjumpa bendalah ni.
p/s: info are not applicable for married couple! :D
10 Signs He's Not the One
1. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wants your relationship to work. If you're fixating on his flaws, he's either not the one you want or you're not ready for a serious relationship.
It was in a list for a few years ago.. Honestly there's a few at first. Kejamnya rasa.. But then i accept him as he is. Enuf la saya bukan super model. Harus la bawak2 sedar diri.
[dear: do u have any list for me?]
2. You don't trust him. A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you're hacking into his email account, and going berserk when he goes out without you, something's wrong. If there's something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he's not the right one for you.
Sometimes. Yes i did it. I secretly hacked his email account and the latest i did was yesterday. :-) Bukannya super hacker pun. I know his password then just go in. :D I checked inbox/spam/draft and sent item. hahaha over! So far nothing curious and i can say his email all kinda "boring" which i wish it will be that "boring" as ever. I would never fully trusted anybody!
[dear: x mo check hp i dah ke? -wink-]
3. You avoid conflict at any cost. Fighting is healthy. And, when done right (in the non-accusatory, rational sort of way), it can be a great way to air grievances, fix problems in your relationship, and come to a deeper understanding of each other. Ignoring problems is not the same as having no problems at all... even if it looks that way.
Agree! once it all cleared i understand him more. We fight a lot. Sometimes sampai rasa nak give up. But tq God.. Saya doa dia jodoh saya. Amin...
[dear: dah lama kita tak gaduh kan ;) i am not wishing for it though]
4. When you're sad, you don't turn to him for comfort. When you're a giant ball of tears and snot, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he can't see you at your worst? If you're worried about scaring him away, one of you isn't ready for total commitment. Mr. Right should make you smile through your tears and be a calming, not stressful, presence.
Yes! As for me, he's the one. I never care to scare him at any time when i feel like i need him.
[dear: sorry.. i love to bother u a lot. Please do not give up to be my motivator]
5. One of you is struggling with an addiction. He's sweet. He's exciting. He loves you very much. But he loves his alcohol habit or his weekly gambling fix more. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you can change him or that your relationship will be strong enough to withstand the heartache that addiction will inevitably bring. An addict may be able to change, but he'll do so on his own terms.
None of us are having problem with an addiction. Thus may be we just addicted to each other. (";)
[dear: "He's sweet. He's exciting. He loves you very much." Am i sweet? Am i exciting? Do you love me very much? I just asked you the same Q last nite. And u did answered. Tq dear.. ]Ok cukup dulu.. Lagi 5 saya KIV sebab nanti reza muntah. wiwiwi :D
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